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Why Do Cats Raise Their Butt When You Pet Them?

Why Do Cats Raise Their Butt When You Pet Them?
Updated: May 2025
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Cat Behavior

You stroke your cat along its back and, just like that, it raises its butt in the air as if you had pressed a secret button. This behavior, as funny as it is intriguing, has a real scientific explanation. And no, your cat is not making fun of you! Here is everything you need to know about why cats raise their butt when you pet them.

The 3 Main Reasons

Before going into detail, here is a summary of the main explanations behind this behavior:

😻 It’s pure pleasure The base of the tail is packed with nerve endings: your cat is telling you “more!”
🐱 A kitten reflex An instinct inherited from the time when its mother groomed it in this sensitive area.
👃 A scent message By raising its tail, your cat “marks” you with its pheromones: its way of claiming you.

Cat Body Language

Cats don’t talk, but they communicate a great deal with their bodies. When your cat leans forward and raises its hindquarters in response to your petting, it is sending you a very clear message: “you’ve found the right spot, whatever you do, don’t stop”.

The hip area and the base of the tail have a high density of nerve endings. As a result, petting this spot feels especially good for most cats. This position (back arched down, rear raised) is an instinctive way to expose this area more and prolong the pleasure.

There is another dimension too: this posture is a sign of trust and friendship in feline language. Between cats, presenting the rear is a welcoming gesture, a bit like a handshake, cat style.

Did you know? Cats also have trouble reaching the base of their tail on their own when grooming. By raising its butt under your hand, your cat may also be asking you to scratch an itch it can’t reach!
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A Kittenhood Memory

The most heartwarming explanation comes from feline ethology. When they are very young, kittens are completely dependent on their mother, especially for grooming. The mother cat licks her kitten from head to tail to clean it, and the kitten instinctively raises its rear to make the job easier.

Even as adults, our cats keep this reflex. They partly see us as substitute parent figures. When you stroke their back with a motion similar to a mother’s tongue, their body reacts just as it did in the nursery. It is a sign that your cat feels safe and pampered with you.

Your Cat Marks You with Its Scent

There is a third explanation, a little less romantic but just as fascinating: by presenting its hindquarters, your cat activates its anal glands, located on each side of the anus. These glands release pheromones that are completely odorless to us but very readable for other cats.

By “marking” you this way, your cat sends a message to other cats: “this person belongs to me”. It is the same logic as when it rubs its face against you, since the cheeks also contain scent glands. In the end, it is a declaration of love in its own way!

What If My Cat Doesn’t Raise Its Butt?

Don’t worry: the absence of this behavior does not mean your cat doesn’t love you. Every cat is unique, and several reasons can explain it:

  • It is not used to you yet (newly adopted cat)
  • It prefers being petted elsewhere (head, cheeks, neck)
  • Its lower back is hypersensitive
  • It can quickly become overstimulated
  • It is simply its personality
⚠️ When to see a vet If your cat used to enjoy this petting and suddenly refuses it, or seems to be in pain when touched near the hips or tail, see your vet. It may indicate skin allergies, blocked anal glands, spinal problems or kidney disease.
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Unspayed Female Cat: A Special Case

If you have an unspayed female cat and she raises her butt spontaneously, without being petted, it is no longer the same behavior. This is called lordosis, a mating posture indicating that the cat is in heat.

Unlike the pleasure reflex described above, lordosis can be recognized by several signs occurring at once:

  • Arched-down back, tail moved to the side
  • Frequent, plaintive meowing
  • Behavior repeated throughout the day
  • Treading with the hind legs
  • Intense rubbing against furniture

If your female cat shows these signs regularly, talk to your vet, who can advise you on spaying.

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FAQ: Your Frequently Asked Questions

Why does my cat raise its butt only with certain people?
Because this gesture is also a sign of trust and affection. Your cat saves it for the people it feels safe and comfortable with. If you are part of that privileged circle, take it as a compliment!
Should I pet my cat at the base of its tail?
If your cat enjoys it and shows it (purring, arched-down back), yes. But stay alert to opposite signals: twitching tail, ears back, rippling skin. Some cats quickly become overstimulated in this area and may bite or scratch.
My male cat does this too, is that normal?
Absolutely. The reflex of raising the butt in response to petting is found in both sexes and in both neutered and unneutered cats. It is a behavior linked to pleasure and communication, not reproduction.
My cat raises its butt and then bites: why?
It is the classic sign of overstimulation. Your cat enjoyed the petting, then reached its tolerance threshold. It warns you first with subtle signals (twitching tail, rippling skin) before biting. Learn to recognize these signals so you can stop petting at the right moment.
My spayed female cat shows lordosis, is that possible?
Yes, it is rare but possible. Some spayed female cats retain residual hormone-related behavior, especially if they were spayed late. If this behavior is frequent or intense, see your vet.
My cat also raises its butt when it wakes up: is that different?
Yes, that is just a stretch! A cat arching its back on waking, butt in the air and front legs stretched out in front, is doing what is called the “sun salutation”, the classic feline stretch. It is purely mechanical and very good for its muscles and spine.

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This article is provided for information purposes only. If you have any doubts about your cat’s behavior or health, always consult a vet.

Read also: Guide to Communicating with Your Cat | What to Do If Your Cat Is Stressed? | The Benefits of Having a Cat by Your Side

4 comments

Ma chatte qui edt stérilisée quand elle est allongé de mon copain lève le cul en l’air et même quand il a caresse . Qu’est ce que sa veut dire ?

Julie Falqui

J’ai aimée vos commentaires j’ai une depuis deux semaine c’est une chatte qui a eux plusieurs foyers elle a 6 ans elle est très douce je ne connais pas les caractères du chat. Merci

Lise. Leduc

Mon chat me demande vraiment, souvent, en miaulant de le suivre et de marcher derrière lui (en appartement) je ne comprends pas pourquoi !!!

du soleil ginou

En effet, une de mes chattes est en chaleur actuellement, elle est non stérilisée, elle lève son train arrière toute seule et de même lorsque je la caresse.

Mireille Rudy

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